We had the good fortune of connecting with Briana Frazier and we’ve shared our conversation below.
Hi Briana, what was your thought process behind starting your own business?
Starting my own business took a lot of thought process. I’m the type of person who likes to plan it out, take my time, and do it right. I knew going into this I wanted to make it something that will last and ultimately help me to expand. I also, had to fight my personal negative thoughts of failure. I was so scared to fail, not gaining the clientele, not performing correctly. I was standing in my own way. I didn’t understand why either, I had so many clients, friends, family and mainly my husband cheering me on, pushing me to take the leap of faith. I received so much support and encouragement yet I kept shrinking back in fear.
Can you open up a bit about your work and career? We’re big fans and we’d love for our community to learn more about your work.
I’ve been a active licensed cosmetologists for 12 years. Throughout my years in this industry I’ve enjoyed doing some of almost every aspect whether it’s styling hair, makeup application for a wedding, or bikini waxing , I’ve done it all. It’s taught me to be disciplined, practice and perfect my craft. I’ve learned to build the backbone to handle the criticism, accept the guidance from those more experienced and not let anything stop me from doing what I love. Getting to this point however wasn’t easy. I’m originally from Chicago and moved here to start a new life, newly married and very homesick. I started a job that I quickly came to love and became very successful at. However, it didn’t take long to see the true colors of this company. It’s unrealistic high demands, overworking, lack of appreciation , and underpaying it’s employees. I was tired of the constant mistreatment of this company. So I started planning for my way out. It was finally time again to start my own business and I was going to do it right. I contacted some close friends who are business owners, they shared insight and references, and I applied for an LLC. I was ready to be gone by January 2022. But then in January 2022 I contacted Covid from my previous place of employment. Causing me to be out of work with no pay for almost 2 weeks. Shortly after I learned I was pregnant with our first child, we were scared but so excited. My pregnancy was pretty hard with first trimester illness on top of stress from my job. I figured it would be best to push back my plans to start my business until after the baby was born. At 16 weeks pregnant we sadly learned our sweet baby boy heart was no longer beating. That had to be one of the most difficult things I’ve ever had to experience in my life. The pain of losing my baby I can’t describe. About 3 weeks after delivering my unborn son, I returned to work. Was it too soon, yes, but I function better when I’m busy. My second day back at work from maternity leave, I was written up, my position dropped and pay decreased. Apparently while I was away, I was falsely accused of misconduct and a couple weeks after the write up, I was terminated. This hurt me, I worked at this company for 2 years and despite being unappreciated and overworked, I was their best employee. I felt like I was constantly being kicked down. Well now I had no choice but to jump an start my business. With a blink of an eye, I had all my equipment and supplies, my suite and website up and ready in two weeks. It seems too unreal how great my business has been doing since I started. I feel like it’s great due to the love and support I’m shown, but mainly because of who I am as a person. I love what I do, I love making people feel and look their best. I enjoy making them feel comfortable, heard and relaxed. When you come see me that is your time to vent if needed, take a break from kids if needed, or just enjoy being pampered. I’m a very personable person, I love getting to know new people, helping people, and hearing everyone story. I can be funny, very chill, ready to party and ask very protective. My story made me push past my fears, take the leap and never look back. If you are in doubt, just take the jump, it’s nothing like working for yourself. The amount of peace I experience is unmatched. Working hard for a job you hate, a job that doesn’t value you, a job that will easily replace you and a job that has no compassion isn’t worth it. They will use you, abuse you and toss you to the trash, all to start over with a new employee and do the same to keep them. If you have a special skill, a great idea, or a strong passion, Do It!!!! I promise you won’t regret it. My clients love coming to see me and my space. We laugh, talk, and have a good time. I couldn’t ask for a better work environment!
If you had a friend visiting you, what are some of the local spots you’d want to take them around to?
I love Vidorra! I’m always down for some good Mexican food. Xoxo is a cute, photo spot I love to take my friends.
Pangea in Garland is a MUST. The food is amazing!!
We like going to Trinity Grove and walk around eat good food.
I love to eat if you can’t tell lol.
Who else deserves some credit and recognition?
I number one want to shoutout my husband Darrius. He has pushed me, encouraged and cheered me own through this whole process. His love and support is overwhelming and appreciated. When I kept doubt myself, he show and tell me why I shouldn’t. When I would make excuses why I can’t do it, he constantly reassured me he’s by my side and will have my back completely. When I just felt a little lost, he held my hand and helped me through. He’s the reason I have this business and why I push so hard to ensure it’s successful. I literally couldn’t have done it without him by my side. I couldn’t have a better partner in this life. I also want to shoutout my parents for their support, providing the tools and foundation of who I am as a woman, a wife, and a business owner. Then of course my sisters, friends, and clients, because all these loyal people cheer me on, show their support, and provide that shoulder to lean on, for that I’m truly grateful.
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