Meet Empress Hyder | Millennial Preemie Mom & Business Doula

We had the good fortune of connecting with Empress Hyder and we’ve shared our conversation below.

Hi Empress, can you walk us through the thought-process of starting your business?
Being a two-time preemie mom has been both a journey of immense challenge and profound growth. My experience in the NICU with my children was a rollercoaster of emotions, filled with uncertainty, fear, and hope. Through it all, I found myself deeply empathizing with other NICU parents facing similar struggles.

The decision to start a business advocating for NICU parents stemmed from a deeply personal place within me. As I navigated through the ups and downs of my own journey, I realized there was a glaring gap in resources and support for parents like myself. The overwhelming nature of the NICU experience often left families feeling isolated and uninformed, with little guidance on how to cope with the unique challenges they were facing.

My thought process in starting this business was driven by a desire to change that narrative. I wanted to create a platform where NICU parents could find solace, support, and practical resources to help them navigate their own journeys with greater ease. Drawing from my own experiences, I knew firsthand the importance of having a community to lean on during such trying times.

In envisioning this business, I meticulously mapped out the various pain points I encountered during my time in the NICU. From there, I brainstormed innovative solutions and services that could address these challenges head-on. Whether it was providing emotional support through online forums and peer mentoring programs or offering practical resources such as educational materials and care packages, every aspect of the business was designed with the needs of NICU parents in mind.

Additionally, I made it a priority to collaborate with healthcare professionals and experts in the field to ensure that the resources and support offered by my business were comprehensive and evidence-based. By leveraging both my personal experience and insights from professionals, I aimed to create a holistic support system that could truly make a difference in the lives of NICU families.

Ultimately, my decision to start this business was fueled by a deep sense of purpose and a commitment to making a positive impact in the lives of others. While the journey has been challenging at times, seeing the profound difference our advocacy and support have made in the lives of NICU parents has been incredibly rewarding. Moving forward, I remain dedicated to expanding our reach and continuing to advocate tirelessly on behalf of NICU families everywhere.

Alright, so let’s move onto what keeps you busy professionally?

“My career journey has been one defined by resilience, determination, and a relentless pursuit of growth. Eight years ago, I embarked on a career path as a Senior Credentialing Specialist, despite lacking any prior experience in the field. It was a leap of faith, driven by my innate desire to challenge myself and carve out a meaningful career path for myself.

As a two-time preemie and an active employee, I bring a unique perspective to my role—one that is shaped by firsthand experience with adversity and a deep understanding of the complexities of navigating life’s challenges. This journey has instilled in me a level of empathy, resilience, and determination that sets me apart from others. I’ve learned to adapt quickly to new situations, think creatively to find solutions, and advocate fiercely for what I believe in.

What sets me apart professionally is not just my expertise in credentialing, but also my unwavering commitment to supporting and uplifting others. I am most proud of the resilience that this journey has provided me—the ability to overcome obstacles with grace and perseverance, and to emerge stronger on the other side.

I am particularly excited about the opportunity to support other NICU parents who may be embarking on a similar journey. Having walked in their shoes, I understand the unique challenges they face and the importance of having a supportive community to lean on during such trying times. My goal is to offer guidance, empathy, and practical support to help them navigate their own paths with greater ease and confidence.

Getting to where I am today has been anything but easy. It required a willingness to step out of my comfort zone, embrace change, and advocate for myself in the face of adversity. It took flexibility, compromise, and the courage to ask for what I deserve. Along the way, I’ve learned invaluable lessons about the power of resilience, the importance of perseverance, and the transformative impact of community support.

As I reflect on my journey, I want the world to know that my story is one of hope, resilience, and unwavering determination. It’s a testament to the power of the human spirit to overcome obstacles and emerge stronger on the other side. My brand is built on the principles of empathy, support, and empowerment, and I am committed to using my platform to uplift others and make a positive impact in the world.”

Let’s say your best friend was visiting the area and you wanted to show them the best time ever. Where would you take them? Give us a little itinerary – say it was a week long trip, where would you eat, drink, visit, hang out, etc.
Sure, here’s a weekend itinerary for a fun-filled weekend in Dallas:

Friday:

Morning:

Start your day with a hearty Texan breakfast at Ellen’s Southern Kitchen for some classic Southern comfort food.
After breakfast, head to the Dallas Arboretum and Botanical Garden to enjoy a leisurely stroll amidst beautiful flowers and landscapes.

Afternoon:
For lunch, try some delicious barbecue at Hutchins BBQ, known for its mouthwatering brisket and ribs.

Spend the afternoon exploring the Dallas Museum of Art, which houses an impressive collection spanning thousands of years and diverse cultures.

Evening:

Enjoy dinner at The Mexican, ask for Jaime & Roberto, where you can choose from a variety of dining options ranging from upscale restaurants to casual eateries.

After dinner, head to Side Car Social in Frisco for some casual fun.

Saturday:

Morning:

Grab Brunch at Henry’s Majestid known for its delicious pastries and brunch options.

Afternoon:
For lunch, try some authentic Mexican cuisine at Meso Maya, where you can enjoy fresh-made tortillas and flavorful dishes.

Spend the afternoon exploring the Bishop Arts District, a vibrant neighborhood filled with eclectic boutiques, art galleries, and charming cafes.

Evening:

Enjoy dinner at Trinity Groves, a culinary destination featuring a variety of restaurants offering diverse cuisines from around the world.

After dinner, head to Deep Ellum, Dallas’ historic entertainment district, known for its live music venues, bars, and vibrant nightlife scene.

Sunday:

Morning:

Start your day with brunch at The Rustic, a popular spot known for its relaxed atmosphere and live music.
Visit the Sixth Floor Museum at Dealey Plaza to learn about the life and legacy of President John F. Kennedy and the events surrounding his assassination.

Afternoon:
For lunch, try some Texas-style Tex-Mex at E-Bar on Haskell.

Spend the afternoon exploring the Dallas Farmers Market, where you can shop for fresh produce, artisanal goods, and local crafts.

Evening:

End your weekend with a stroll along the Katy Trail, a scenic walking and biking path that winds through some of Dallas’ most picturesque neighborhoods.

For dinner, indulge in some upscale Southern cuisine at Savor Gastropub, located along the trail, where you can enjoy delicious food and stunning views of the Dallas skyline.

This itinerary offers a taste of the diverse attractions and culinary delights that Dallas has to offer, ensuring a memorable weekend getaway filled with fun and exploration.

Who else deserves some credit and recognition?
“I am immensely grateful for the journey that has led me to where I am today, and I owe a debt of gratitude to the incredible individuals and resources that have played pivotal roles in shaping my path.

First and foremost, I want to express my heartfelt appreciation to Sarah Jakes for her inspiring book, ‘Don’t Settle for Safe.’ Her words have been a beacon of strength and resilience, guiding me through moments of doubt and empowering me to pursue my dreams fearlessly. Sarah’s wisdom has instilled in me the belief that greatness lies beyond my comfort zone, urging me to embrace challenges as opportunities for growth.

To the dedicated staff at Baylor NICU, words cannot express the depth of my gratitude for your unwavering commitment to the well-being of my children and countless others. Your expertise, compassion, and tireless efforts have not only saved lives but have also provided comfort and reassurance to families during their darkest hours. Your selflessness and dedication are a testament to the power of human kindness, and I am forever indebted to each and every one of you.

I am also incredibly fortunate to have a village of support surrounding me, consisting of friends, family, and mentors who have walked alongside me every step of the way. Their love, guidance, and encouragement have been the cornerstone of my success, offering me strength and perspective when I needed it most. Whether through a listening ear, a word of wisdom, or a helping hand, their unwavering support has been a constant source of inspiration.

Last but certainly not least, I want to acknowledge the two most precious blessings in my life—my sons, aged 8 and 4. They are my driving force, my motivation to be the best version of myself each and every day. Their resilience, curiosity, and boundless love remind me of the beauty and wonder in the world, inspiring me to persevere through any challenge that comes my way.

To everyone who has contributed to my journey, whether through efforts, support, mentorship, love, or encouragement, please know that your impact has been immeasurable. I am eternally grateful for the role each of you has played in shaping my life and guiding me to where I am today. Together, we have overcome obstacles, celebrated victories, and forged lasting bonds that I will cherish always. Thank you for believing in me and standing by my side—I could not have done it without you.”

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